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As St. Patrick’s Day draws near, I’m missing the life my lovely family and I left in Ireland one-and-a-half years ago. Our home in the country is situated between the mountains and the sea. Our daily village traffic jam is only ever caused by farm animals, elegant equestrians or the 184 bus getting stuck around a tight bend. From the upstairs windows of our home we can see a row of trees on a distant hill, which remind me of Africa (imagine elephants walking tail to trunk), and a gorgeous blue line that is the Irish Sea. On occasion, a rainbow will appear in our back garden – a gift like none other.

On warm days, the laundry hangs on a rotating clothes line in the side garden and reminds me of my mother-in-law…how many clothes she must have hung on her own line over the years as she raised her twelve children. Not just for a place for drying clothes, our garden is also a sanctuary, a place where we go to get away from the hubbub of the city, and a place for raising fruits, vegetables, flowers and happy children. In this tranquil space, our girls have the freedom to run like fairies across the expansive green lawn and exhaust  themselves in childhood games of hide and seek or jump high enough on the trampoline to dream of touching the sky.

Our life in Ireland is a busy but respectable one. We don’t find ourselves running crazily from one event or task to the other. Life is just a bit slower in Ireland than America. We have time to call in (stop by) to a friend’s home for a cuppa (cup of tea and a chat) or take a stroll along the pier. I make soda bread or brown bread every week. Dinners are not a rushed stop at the Whole Foods grocery store but whole foods made at home, at my hob (stove) with the younger daughter usually by my side. For tea (dinner time) we sit around the table together and talk about school and work and we give thanks for what we share.

Wednesday nights are always very special: my husband’s extended family join us and the house grows full with granny, aunties, uncles and cousins under one roof. We call this tradition, Family Dinner Night, and it was started when our older daughter was just a baby. The dream was to have her grow up surrounded by laughter, stories and memories that belonged solely to our family. It’s amazing to have three generations sit together every week…year in…year out.

Yes, today I miss our lovely life in Ireland. As Saint Patrick’s Day gets ever more close, I am reflective and thankful for the life we have lived between the Irish Sea and the mountains. I look forward to getting back there in a few months time: to seeing family, friends, the horses, my garden and the trees on the distant hill. Thank you, Dear Readers, for letting me process my melancholy.  Now, anyone for a slice of meringue roulade and a cuppa?

Mixed Fruit Meringue Roulade

Serves 6

4 large egg whites

225g/8oz/1-1/4 cup sugar (caster)

500ml/1 pint/2 cups cream, whipped

450g/1lb mixed fruit, quartered, plus two strawberries halved (for mixed fruit I use bananas, strawberries, pineapple, apples, raspberries, blackberries, kiwi as available and in season)

Extra whipped cream for decorating

Directions

1. Position rack in center of oven and preheat to 150°C/300°F. Line a 30 x 20cm/12 x 8 inch swiss roll tin/baking sheet with parchment paper, extending a little over ends of pan.

2. Beat the egg whites and half the sugar using an electric whisk until soft peaks form. Gradually add the remaining sugar, continuing to whisk until the meringue forms stiff peaks. To test: lift the beater out of the meringue and turn upside down. If the meringue peak holds its shape you are done.

3. Spread the meringue evenly on to baking sheet/swiss roll tin and bake for one hour.

4. Remove from oven and cool to touch. Turn meringue out on to a clean tea towel. Carefully peel off the parchment paper and allow to cool fully. The meringue may be crumbly.

5. Spread an even layer of whipped cream over the meringue, leaving a 2 inch border on three sides. Sprinkle the mixed fruit over the cream.

6. Starting at one long side, gently roll up the meringue, enclosing the filling. Place roulade, seam side down on a plate or platter. Garnish with dollops of cream and a strawberry. Note: will keep in the refrigerator for 1-3 hours.

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Have you seen those YouTube videos that poke fun of how people talk to each other? “S*** People Say” has become a genre unto itself on YouTube in the past year and most recently “S*** White Girls Say to Black Girls” went viral, achieving more than 5 million hits in its first week.

Franchesca Leigh Ramsey, star of the two-minute videoblog “S*** White Girls Say to Black Girls”, dons a white wig and poses as a white girl talking to her black friend.  The opening line, “Not to sound racist, but…” kicks things off in a way that has some people shocked and other people laughing. For me, “S*** White Girls Say to Black Girls” is hilarious and reminds me of “Irish-humour”. What I mean to say is that Ramsey’s spoof is the kind of humour that lets us see the good, the bad and the ugly in ourselves without feeling completely offended. Something the Irish are very good at.

For those of you who haven’t seen it yet, here it is:

Franchesca’s videoblog has not gone over well with everyone. For those easily offended, she has added this disclaimer, “Now, before you get all upset and call me a racist, This is a parody of th(e) video ‘S*** Girls Say’.”. Fair enough. Sometimes people are not good at seeing themselves as they really are – they only see themselves as how they hope they are. Myself included. I’m pretty sure I’ve said one or two things Franchesca says as the white girlfriend to my black friends (mea culpa)!

So, what does all this have to do with Irish and American people? Well, Franchesca’s blog immediately made me think of the stuff I’ve heard Irish people say about Americans and, similarly, the stuff I’ve heard Americans say about the Irish over the past twenty-one years. What follows is not for the faint of heart so if you’re easily offended…here’s my disclaimer “This is not meant to stereotype all Irish or American people. It’s about SOME Irish and SOME American people. If you’re offended, then maybe you need to think about things you’ve said.”. Enough said.

“Stuff Irish People Say”:

“You can’t be American, you’re not fat!” – The assumption is that all Americans are fat because our portion sizes are about the size of Texas (sad but true). For the record, not all Americans are fat.

“Of course you’d get married here, Americans don’t believe in marriage.” Yes, the high divorce rate makes it seem like Americans don’t believe in marriage but you can’t paint everyone in an entire country with the same brush. I didn’t get married in Ireland because Americans don’t believe in marriage. I got married in Ireland because that’s where we were living.

“We don’t have gay people in Ireland.” – Really? How about Anna Nolan, Colm O’Gorman, Sinead O’Connor (for a while, that is), Oscar Wilde, Boy George (Irish/English),and Nell McCafferty to name a famous few.

“Why would a black person want to live in Ireland? Sure, just look at the weather.” – This was a shocker of a statement and, in fairness, it came from someone I met way back in my early days of living in Dublin, when there literally were very few blacks living there. Today it’s quite the melting pot.

“Look what Americans did to the Indians (native American).” – Emmm, I believe those were Europeans coming to America who did that.

“Recession? Not us. We’ll have a soft landing.” – Ouch, that one hurts.

“How come your toilet doors don’t go all the way down to the floor?” – You know, I haven’t a clue.

“Why do you Americans always say, “have a nice day”?  – Because we mean it.

“We’re better educated than Americans are.” – Perhaps, but it doesn’t get Irish people any further in life than us less well-educated “Yanks”.

Stuff Americans Say:

“Do you have running water in your house”? – Hello!? Do I look like someone who lives in a house without running water!?

“Have you seen any leprechaun?” – Really? That’s just totally ignorant.

“I just love the I.R.A. Can you get me one of their flags?” – Right…you do know the IRA flag is the Irish tricolour!

“How long does it take you to drive to England?” – Well, I have to drive to Dun Laoghaire, put my car on the ferry, and then we sail over the Irish Sea.

“Where exactly is Ireland?” – Just west of England!!!

“Sure, I know Ireland. It’s part of the United Kingdom, right?” – Uhhh, no. Once and for all…the United Kingdom is made up of England, Scotland, and the six counties that make up Northern Ireland (shown in yellow in the photo to the right). The Republic of Ireland, also just known as Ireland, is not part of England, the United Kingdom or Great Britain (or whatever part of the U.K. you want to use).

“Do you have electricity in your house?” – Again I reply, “Do I really look like someone who’d live in a house without electricity?” See above picture for the obvious answer.

“Do you guys drink green beer?” – Yea, sure, all the time! Seriously?!

“Is there really a pipe going from the Guinness factory to all the pubs?” – It’s an urban legend.

So there you have it! Hope this made you laugh and shake your head and maybe, just maybe, it’s reminded you to think twice before you ask something that might be considered racist.

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Hello Dear Friends…this blog by Andreas Moser about Feb 29th is a great read and will surely make you smile. I’m off to milk a cow or give chocolate to everyone I meet today! Slan.

Andreas Moser's avatarThe Happy Hermit

Tomorrow, you will receive a precious gift: an extra day.

Because 2012 is a leap year, you will have 24 hours more in your year. Even those of you who pretend that they don’t have enough time, have no more excuse not to do what they want to do.

Make use of this rare opportunity! Don’t go to work! (You can blame it on not knowing about this oddity or on operating on last year’s calendar.)

Instead, use this unexpected extra day to do what you have always wanted to do:

  • Learn how to dive.
  • Climb a volcano.
  • Send a letter to a relative or friend that you haven’t contacted in years.
  • Learn the cricket rules.
  • Make a barbecue.
  • Turn off your phone and read a book.
  • Milk a cow.
  • Use a bus or a train that you have never used and see where it goes. Walk back.
  • Draw…

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Love is in the air today and I hope you get a chance to breathe it in deeply. If you’re still looking for some simple, yet lovely, ways to make the day special for someone you love, check-out these great ideas!

Origami Hearts from KSL Studio 5 – these easy to make origami hearts with lollipop centers are perfect for tucking into a napkin at dinner-time or for a children’s Valentine Day school party.

Valentine’s Day Coupon from The Twinery Blog – the secret to a really good coupon is 1) it has to be cute and 2) it has to be specific. I love these designs made by Sugarsticks Parties and found on thetwineryblog.com because they can be used for kids, spouses, partners or friends. All you need is a colour printer and card stock – couldn’t be easier!

Chocolate is on nearly everyone’s mind today. If your sweetie loves chocolate, try these simple to make but oh so delicious chocolate covered strawberries from The Food Network’s website. This yummy looking photo on the left was taken by beautifulcataya on Flickr.

For more ideas check-out One Charming Party – this website is the genius of Utah woman Brittany Egbert, mother of four gorgeous children and a party-planning diva. On onecharming party.com, Egbert offers up some great tips from her “lovely sponsors” which are sure to delight one and all. The heart votives were particularly sweet and, if you don’t have all the equipment required to make the votives, perhaps you could use stickers instead.

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Yesterday was a big day for fashionistas as Jason Wu’s collection hit the shelves and racks of Target stores around the country.  Unfortunately for many, myself included, both a trip to Target and attempts to get online to make purchases were in vain.

ABC News’ Christina Ng and Lauren Effron reported on ABC’s website this morning that “Mere hours after Target released designer Jason Wu’s collection in-store and online Sunday, the fashion line was sold out.” In my case, our local Target (one of only two in the state carrying the collection) sold out of nearly everything in less than 30 minutes.

Across the country shoppers waited in line for hours before stores opened with the hope of getting a dress, scarf or handbag. I met and spoke with a few shoppers who were deeply frustrated by 9am. “How can everything be gone already”, one woman asked angrily. Another felt the store didn’t have enough stock. “There was more available at the Missoni launch”, exclaimed a woman named Maggie who had come to shop with her husband, daughter and granddaughter in tow. Employees, when asked, confirmed Maggie’s suspicion. Despite the fact that there were several pretty Jason Wu posters about the place, they had only received three racks of clothes – hardly enough to satisfy the desires of the whipped-up Wu crowd.

As I stood before the near-empty racks, having also combed the fitting area for cast-offs, I wondered how many purchases were destined for Ebay. As it turns out – quite a few. At last check there were 10,671 results for “Jason Wu for Target” on Ebay. And, if you didn’t hear, there was a couple from Miami who practically bought out the entire Wu collection at their midtown store with plans to sell everything on Ebay at a higher price (click here to see the YouTube video).  Dubbed “The Vultures Who Ruined Jason Wu for Target“, the pair were vindicated in their actions when a call to Target corporate headquarters confirmed stores were not allowed to stop people from what basically amounted to “shopping for Ebay”.

Those who didn’t drive to their nearest Target may have gone online to shop and been equally disappointed. I went online at midnight (New York time) and could not get past the Jason Wu masthead. I went to bed and tried again at 9am (again, New York time) and discovered that the blue dress I wanted for my daughter was only “available in-store”. Ughh! Even now, a full 24 hours later, it’s still impossible to figure out what’s going on…the “available in-store” and the “on-line price” (with “free shipping when you spend $50) followed by the “find in store” is confusing to say the least. It shouldn’t be this difficult.

Hello Target…are you listening? Please, make it simple. Is it available online or in-store? And, could you please let us know in advance next time?

Oh, silly me. Next time Target collaborates with another hot designer, they will surely tease/frustrate us all by 1) not supplying enough information, 2) allowing their website to be flawed, and 3) not filling their shops with a “suitable” amount of product to make a large percentage of the shopping public happy. While we cry “Boo hoo, Jason Wu at Target”…Target is sublimely happy. In-store, online or via Ebay…whatever the way, Target wins in both financial terms and public relations.

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This just in…I received an email from Nancy Schwartzman, Outreach Campaign Director, for the film The Invisible War. Last week the movie won The Sundance Film Festival’s Audience Award in the Documentary Competition! What follows is the great news in Nancy’s own words:

Dear Friends,
We are thrilled to announce that “The Invisible War” has won the Audience Award in the Documentary Competition at this year’s Sundance Film Festival! It has been an exhilarating week! We’re blown away by the positive responses to the film, and your commitment to taking action with us, to make a difference in the lives of thousands of military sexual assault survivors.
We couldn’t have done it without the incredible support of our Executive Producers, Geralyn Dreyfous, Maria Cuomo Cole, Regina Kulik Scully, Jennifer Siebel Newsom, Abigail Disney, and Nicole Boxer-Keegan. We give special thanks to Mary J. Blige, who joined us for the premiere and will be writing an original song for the film.
Buzz for the film began building even before our Sundance launch, when on Wednesday January 18, “The Invisible War” was featured on NBC’s nightly news with Brian Williams.  Featured in this piece was Secretary of Defense, Leon Panetta’s press conference announcing (in anticipation of our film’s release) that the military would make every attempt to improve it’s responsiveness on issues of sexual assault.  We plan to hold Panetta accountable to his vows, via our advocacy campaing to alleviate the suffering of hundreds of  thousands of assault survivors who do receive neither justice or adequate care.
On Friday, January 20th, the day of the premiere, anticipation was high. Survivors flew in from all over the country to join us in Park City, Utah. We were honored to have service members Kori Cioca and several others join us with their partners and families for premiere weekend to see the film and answer audience questions.
Immediately after the screening ended, the impact was clear. There was a standing ovation and outpouring of emotion. One audience member was so moved, he offered to anonymously pay for the surgery that Kori Cioca so desperately needs, as a result of her rape and lack of responsiveness from the VA. Supporters in the audience included Senator Barbara Boxer, Brigadier General Loree Sutton, Representative Jackie Speier and Representative Michael Turner. Following the premiere, we convened at an after party that included an intimate conversation with Mary J. Blige and Jennifer Siebel Newsom about the importance of challenging the epidemic of sexual violence in our military.
On Sunday 1/22, survivors, advocates, and filmmakers came together for a community speak out. Survivors dialogued with members of the local anti-violence advocate community, members of the Utah VA, and we hosted a virtual conversation about MST on twitter using the hashtag #Notinvisible. Tweets and photographs are compiled here on Storify.
In the week following the premiere, the buzz was unstoppable and positive reviews and support poured in. From The Daily Beast to Reuters, to The Associated Press to The L.A. Times, the message about “The Invisible War” and the epidemic of military sexual assault it uncovers were felt far and wide across America thanks to the attention of the mainstream media.
Our outreach team also took to the internet to help spread the word, joining the Women’s Media Center for a virtual discussion about Military Sexual Assault with over 16,000 participants.
The actions we wanted to ignite are starting to occur!  In just over a week, we have over 2,000 signatures directed at the House and Senate Armed Services Committees, and the Veterans Affairs Committees to take direct and immediate action to take the reporting of rapes outside of the chain of the command, and make getting disability benefits for military sexual assault survivors much easier.
Will you join us in sending a clear message to Capitol Hill?
Sign up to host a screening in your community: invisiblewar@filmsprout.org if people see this movie, this issue will no longer remain invisible.
Thanks for your support,
Nancy Schwartzman
Outreach Campaign Director

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Tomorrow is Sunday and it’s no ordinary Sunday…it’s Super Bowl Sunday and Jason Wu for Target Sunday! Yep, that’s right. Unless you’re living in a cave, under a rock, or someplace other than America, you know that tomorrow is a big day for football fans AND fashionistas.

I’m not much of a football fan any more. Living in Ireland for 20+ years can knock a hardcore sports gal from her perch on the 50 (yard line that is). Nope, these days I’m interested in the Super Bowl purely for the advertisements and the half-time show (FYI Madonna is the main act). As for Target…I’m absolutely a fan and Jason Wu has been on my radar ever since Michelle Obama stepped on the Inaugural Ball stage in his dreamy white gown back in 2009 (click here for images).

Missoni for Target was only a passing interest for me but Jason Wu is different. I’ve got my eye on a few dresses for one of my daughters. She’ll look only too cute in this one:

or this one:

Target and Wu have been criticized for not unveiling the full collection to the public but you can see it at The Huffington Post website (click here). Wu says the theme for the dresses, scarves and handbags, ranging in price from $19.99-$59.99, is “French New Wave film star” but it has all the appearance of nonchalant chic.

There will be lots of competition for this new designer collaboration…don’t drop the ball. Start tonight by checking out what’s available online so you can be ready to charge ahead of the competition tomorrow morning for your favourite items.  Also find out which of your local Target stores will be carrying the collection as it will only be available in certain shops around the country. And finally, if you can’t get to a Target, go online and shop till you drop. Can I get a Wu-hu?!

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I’m at the Sundance Film Festival in Park City, Utah this week and it’s quite an event. There are the obviously beautiful people like Kate Bosworth, Emily Blunt, Taylor Swift and Ireland’s own Eve Hewson (daughter of Bono and Ali Hewson) walking around but they pale in comparison to the amazing indie films on offer. Today I saw The Invisible War, a groundbreaking documentary investigating the epidemic of rape in the U.S. military against women and men.

When Amy Ziering, the producer of The Invisible War, kindly offered up a ticket I was delighted. Then I went home and Googled the movie…90 minutes about rape? To say I was concerned about attending the film is a huge understatement. I quite literally didn’t want to go. Thankfully, however, I did. This is an amazing, shocking, sad, powerful and hopeful film. Please click here to see the preview.

It opens with a few light-hearted vintage military recruitment ads aimed at women. These are followed by clips of women talking about why they chose to enlist. Quickly, the interviews turn serious, and within minutes of starting we learn that each woman (and one man) in the film is a survivor of rape at the hands of a comrade.

Shockingly the following stats unfold: the U.S. Department of Defense estimates that as many as 16,150 service members were sexually assaulted in 2009; at least 20 percent of service-women and 1 percent of men have experienced sexual trauma while serving (which is twice the rate for the civilian population); that only 8 percent of sexual assault cases in the U.S. military are prosecuted and 2% result in convictions. The final shock is the extremely disturbing statement from the Dept. of Defense that rape is considered “an incident to military service”.

Really…”an incident”?! Since when is rape an incident to any career choice? Defense Secretary Leon Panetta said recently “one sexual assault is one to many”. Here. Here. Now, what’s being done about it?!

For The Invisible War’s main subject Kori Cioca, not enough. The class-action law suit she and her fellow survivors took against Donald Rumsfeld, the former Secretary of Defense, was dismissed in 2011. She has been denied necessary medical attention from the Veterans Administration for the surgical treatment of her jaw which was dislocated by her rapist. She and her family have had to suffer the public airing of a very private trauma in order to receive any justice…and that justice is coming too slowly. If there is a silver lining to Kori going public it is that, as a direct result of The Invisible War being screened this week during the Sundance Film Festival, someone has come forward and offered to pay for her much needed surgery. The estimated cost is upwards of $50,000.

The generosity of the anonymous couple is wonderful but it is not enough – Kori is only one victum. To help the others, and the ones yet to come, we must help bring about a change by taking action. Please, get involved in one of the following ways:

1. Sign and share a petition supporting the STOP Act and the Holley Lynn James Act 2012. It takes less than two minutes to do.

2. See The Invisible War, tell your friends about it or host a screening party.

3. Text NOTINVISIBLE to 313131 to stay informed as to how to bring this issue to Washington.

4. Watch your local PBS listing for The Invisible War which will be showing in 2012/2013 on Independent Lens.

There’s one last thing we can do but it’s a long shot…Amy Ziering jokingly asked if anyone in our audience knew of a way to get this film to President Obama. If you believe in six degrees of separation then this should be possible. Today, I asked a designer friend of mine, who knows someone close to Michelle Obama, if she could help get this film before the First Lady. We’ll see what happens. If everyone tries, maybe together we can be successful! Please help.

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The girls and I have just come from seeing Cameron Crowe’s new movie We Bought a Zoo. The film is based on a memoir by an Englishman named Benjamin Mee. It stars actors Matt Damon and Scarlett Johansson and is a feel good movie that makes you remember that despite the gloomy economy (or whatever else may be getting you down) there are many reasons for which to be thankful. Seems a good way to start the New Year, don’t you think?

Most people start their New Year by giving something up or promising to do something differently. Well, I’m starting 2012 by counting my blessings. So here are the top 10 things I’m thankful for:

1. My lovely Irish husband

2. Our two sweet girls

3. Our good health

4. The roof over our head

5. Not going hungry

6. Having (lots of) friends

7. Knowing how blessed we are

8. Believing in God, faith, miracles, love

9. Having hope

10. Being part of a large family (origin and marriage)

As you can see, my list is quite simple. Sometimes simple is best. If you made a list of the things you were thankful for, what would be on it? Keep in mind, the point of the exercise is not to be creative and puff yourself up but to stop, take stock and appreciate what you’ve really got right now. Have you got a list?  If so, write it down or recite it in your head. You can even buy a Gratitude App and keep track for the entire year. In fact, that’s what I’m going to do…I’m going to use the journal my daughters bought me for Christmas and write down at least five things each day I am thankful for. Supposedly, people who regularly keep a Gratitude Journal increase their happiness by up to 25% over those who do not.

Imagine…25% more happiness just for making a daily list. Care to join me? In fact, how about this…be the first to join me and I’ll send you a Gratitude Journal of your very own. How’s that for a New Year challenge? Think about it. Send me a list of the five things your thankful for today. The first person to write-in will win the giveaway. Good luck and athbhliain faoi mhaise daoibh (Irish for “happy new year”).

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Dear Friends and Readers,

Today I wanted to write a quick blog of thanks to you.  I appreciate your friendship, no matter whether you are thousands of miles away, across the Atlantic ocean, or living locally around the corner.  These past few months have been trying.  As most of you now know my dear, beloved, grandmother passed away in November. Her struggle with cancer was brief.  She was graceful at every stage.  And in the end, when her time to leave was near, she told me “I’m not afraid to die”. Such a simple sentence but how meaningful it was for our family as she got ever closer to moving on. My father and I were fortunate to be with my grandmother as she took her final breath and left this world.

I feel no need for deep grieving.  Grandma lived life to the fullest: from riding motorcycles and surfing as a teenager to living in Vietnam during war-time to settling into being called “Grandma” and finally “the Grandma who is great” (only because being called “great-grandma” made her feel old!).  Now she is in a better place.  I feel her near me all the time and that is comforting.

Your friendship has also been comforting these past few months.  I thank you for calling, writing, emailing, sending flowers, offering to help with the children, going to church to have prayers said on Grandma’s and our behalf, and so much more.

You know that saying “life is short”? Well, it’s true.  Life is short but while we’re here we should make the most of the time we’ve got.  Kick up your heels.  Run out into the rain today without an umbrella.  Throw a snowball.  Kiss someone.  Call a friend you haven’t talked to in a long while.  Put down your anger and forgive.  Help a stranger. Listen. Learn.  Love.

I thank you.  I thank you for reading In An Irish Home and for supporting my efforts to get this fledgling idea off the ground. I thank you for your support in helping our family through these past few months and always being available for a chat, cuppa or a hug.  Most especially on this early morning in the Rockies…I thank you for your friendship and offer you this simple Irish blessing…”May you alway walk in sunshine. May you never want for more. May Irish angels rest their wings right beside your door”.

God Bless You.

* Photos are from the Celebration of Life we held in my grandmother’s honour last month.

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